Sunday, September 13, 2009

最後的演講 The Last Lecture / Randy Pausch

最後的演講 Randy Pausch

經驗是在你無法獲得想要之物時才會學到。
Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted.

如果你生某人的氣,你只不過是沒給他們足夠的時間而已,只要給予足夠的時間,他們絕對會讓你驚訝的。
Wait long enough and people will surprise and impress. When you're pissed off at someone and you're angry at them, you just haven't given them enough time. Just give them a little more time and they almost always will impress you.

阻擋你的障礙必有其原因!這道牆並不是為了阻止我們,這道牆讓我們有機會,展現自己有多想達到這目標,這道牆是為了阻止那些不夠渴望的人,它們是為了阻擋那些不夠熱愛的人而存在的。
Brick walls are there for a reason. The brick walls are not there to keep us out. The brick walls are there to show how badly we want something. Because the brick walls are there to stop the people who don’t want something badly enough. They are there to keep out the other people.


因為當你搞砸,卻沒人願意責備你時,這代表他們放棄了。如果發現你作錯某件事情,卻沒人願意批評,這是個非常糟糕的狀況。批評的人是在告訴你,他們還在乎你,還愛你。
You may not want to hear it, but your critics are often the ones telling you they still love you and care about you, and want to make you better.

要讓他人幫助你:你必須說實話,要誠懇。當你搞砸的時候要道歉,把重點放在別人身上,而不是自己。

有時你必須要等的夠久,可能是幾年但人們終會展現出好的一面,請你耐心等待,不管要花多久時間,這世上沒有真正的惡人,每人都有好的一面,只要耐心等,就會看到的。
Wait long enough and people will surprise and impress. When you're pissed off at someone and you're angry at them, you just haven't given them enough time. Just give them a little more time and they almost always will impress you.

關鍵不在於如何達成夢想,而是如何無悔過人生,如果你能好好過人生,人生自會為你尋找答案,你的夢想自會實現。
It's not about how to achieve your dreams, it's about how to lead your life, ... If you lead your life the right way, the karma will take care of itself, the dreams will come to you.

The key question to keep asking is, Are you spending your time on the right things? Because time is all you have.
Time is all you have and you may find one day that you have less than you think.

My colleague told me: "It took a long time, but I finally figured it out. When it comes to men who are romantically interested in you, it's really simple. Just ignore everything they say and only pay attention to what they do."

Luck is where preparation meets opportunity.

The questions are always more important than the answers.

Follow your passions, believe in karma, and you won't have to chase your dreams, they will come to you.

Tuesday, September 08, 2009

把愛給該給的人

把時間花在重要的事情上,把在意的心情放在在意自己的人身上,把愛給該給的人。

--小狗君給自己的告誡